Life is moving at full speed. There are things you can do from today and questions to ask yourself in order to look back one day and see a life free of regret. There are important questions you should ask yourself in your personal development process and steps you can determine accordingly, shared by Amazon’s founder Jeff Bezos.
A life free of regret Is it a dream that everyone wants but only few can achieve, or is it really Is it possible to live a life free of regret? In fact, everything turns around and ends in the person himself. Rather than the short-lived enthusiasm of personal development books and films, there are steps you can follow and questions you can ask yourself as you know your life best.
Jeff Bezos, founder of Amazon, billionaire, one of the most successful people in the world, for a life free of regret shared questions to ask yourself. Don’t worry, the questions have nothing to do with money. Bezos says that you can set yourself some steps based on the questions you ask yourself so that you can look back when you look back. a life free of regret says you can see.
10 steps to follow for a life free of regret:
- Will you accept what exists, will you act out of your passions?
- Will you be like everyone else or original?
- Will you prefer a relaxed or adventurous life?
- Will you be open to criticism, did we say what I said?
- What will you do when you are wrong?
- Will you live in fear of rejection or will you confess your love?
- Will you agree to cheat a little for a life free of regret?
- Will you give up when you see hard or will you struggle to the end?
- Will you be constructive or cynical?
- Are you ready to pay the price of being kind so as not to offend others?
Will you accept what exists or will you act out of your passions?
Everyone has their passions and things they have, which are against them in general. By accepting what you have, a life without risk you can drive. Another option is to pursue your passions. It can be an extremely risky situation to act with your passions, but looking back and seeing passions that are not pursued; It can reduce the happiness you need to feel about what you have.
Will you be like everyone else or original?
Being like everyone is peaceful, it doesn’t tire anyone. You can keep up as everyone else lives and like living a happy movie script you can feel. Being original and different from everyone else can be tiring. You may have to struggle with those like ‘everyone else’ your whole life. Even if you are asking this question, you must rethink whether you are like everyone else.
Will you prefer a relaxed or adventurous life?
In all stories, there are two paths to the hero. At the end of a road fighting with the dragon reaches the treasure, and has a peaceful house at the end of the other road. In all adventurous stories, our hero chooses the path that does not go home and thus has a story worth telling. The story of our hero who chose the way home is not told much, but it is indisputable that he lived a peaceful life.
Will you be open to criticism, did we say what I said?
People who are open to criticism are seen as open to improvement in their jobs and private lives. They think that every new criticism opens a new horizon for them. And also who thinks he is right in any case there are people. In general, we do not like these people, but when we look at the results of their work, we should consider which ones are successful.
What will you do when you are wrong?
By nature, every human being makes mistakes, he has to do it. What matters is what to do when we are wrong. Especially showing our fault, To the person who says we are wrong Our attitude is extremely important. Life consists of those who go on the way they know despite being wrong and try to correct it by accepting their mistake. When we are at fault, our reactions will show us which way we are.
Will you live in fear of rejection or will you confess your love?
What about love? The story of those who continue to watch that beautiful person for fear of being rejected and those who go to talk saying ‘whatever will happen’ a whole movie industry formed. It is clear what method you should choose for a life free of regret. However, which method will make you regret depends entirely on the result of the action. Of course, there is no way to see the result without trying it.
Will you agree to cheat a little for a life free of regret?
Let’s face it, it’s pretty hard to be honest all the time. As long as it is legal and ethical, it doesn’t hurt to do small tricks in life. However, there may be those who want to go the hard way and want to live everything as it is. What matters is which method will lead you to your goal of a life free of regret. Even if we don’t say cheating sometimes it may be necessary to take shortcuts.
Will you give up when you see hard or will you struggle to the end?
There is no point in glorifying either giving up or struggling. Some are not difficult, because they want an easy way give up and evaluate alternatives. Others have well-defined targets and are ready to deal with any obstacle. At this point, attention should be paid to the target. No one gives up easily after choosing the right goal. If he gives up, maybe it’s because he didn’t choose the right goal.
Will you be constructive or cynical?
You can also ask this question, should people be bothered with me? You know, some people mock very nicely but They cannot even put a pin they have produced. There are some people who, even if there is a situation that really deserves to be ridiculed, instead of making fun of it, they determine where the wrong is and do everything to eliminate it. Being constructive is a tough choice.
Are you ready to pay the price of being kind so as not to offend others?
Especially in the last few centuries, we have all been trying to be polite. However, this situation It is obvious that there is a cost. Accepting this price and living without hurt anyone, or not paying the risk to offend people is also an option. Both methods have many positive and negative sides. You can leave broken hearts behind for a life free of regret, or you can get a place in hearts for a little price.
For a life free of regret shared by Jeff Bezos Questions to ask yourself and we explained the steps you need to follow accordingly. Remember that questions do not have a right or wrong answer, they just help you determine your path.
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